Some parents feel that ignoring is not an effective behavioural strategy. It can be one of the most effective parenting tools; however, it can be difficult for parents to use it consistently. If you want to stop whining, tantrums, or outright...
Read moreNightmares As Autumn draws in, the evenings get dark, which can upset children. Waking in the middle of the night from a bad dream can frighten children. Nightmares, although a perfectly normal part of childhood, are scary for youngsters and, if...
Read moreMany parents worry about their children making and having good friends. I am sure it was easier for some than others. Some children are more extroverted than others; some develop
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Do you tell your children to do it because I said so? Does it work for you? I suspect it’s likely that this way of parenting is pretty ineffective in encouraging Cooperation. Do you notice it escalates power struggles between you and your...
Read moreExternalising is a simple technique that many family therapists and I use in sessions. Externalising is a technique that arose from Narrative Therapy. Michael White and David Epston developed narrative
Read moreBullying, some of you may be rejoicing that it’s the start of term. Still, many children have feelings of dread, anxiety, and trepidation due to the possibility of being bullied
Read moreParents often ask me how to help their “shy” child; what does it even mean.? Some children are not shy but very sensitive to what’s happening around them. Some may be more introverted, and others may need less social interaction...
Read moreAggression can be present in many forms and is a common theme of discussion with parents. You may notice many “Nero tantrums”, hitting, kicking and biting. Your child may attempt to control you with threats and sometimes damage...
Read moreFollowing on from my post on the importance of self-soothing, here are my top practical steps to help babies and older children. It’s essential not to rush when you want
Read moreSelf-soothing is an essential skill for your child to learn to help them get off to sleep and sleep independently. Whatever your child’s age, the best way for your child is to get up and be awake and settle on their own. Also, if they wake up at...
Read moreYou might think starting school is a long way off, and you might not even want to think about it just yet; however, if your child is starting school for the first time or is returning following the holidays. In today’s blog, here are some...
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All parents get upset, angry and anxious when dealing with their children. It would be very odd if you did not. Today I will focus on how to challenge your
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