Practical steps to help your child self-soothe
Following on why self-soothing matters, here are my practical steps for helping both babies and older children learn how to self-soothe and settle. It is important not to rush this.
Read moreFollowing on why self-soothing matters, here are my practical steps for helping both babies and older children learn how to self-soothe and settle. It is important not to rush this.
Read moreSelf-soothing is an essential skill for your child to learn, both for getting off to sleep and for sleeping independently through the night. Whatever your child’s age, the goal is
Read moreEvery child’s behaviour tells a story, and consequences are one of the ways we respond to that story. Not to punish, but to teach: decision-making, accountability, and the simple, steadying
Read moreAnger gets a bad press, which leaves many parents unsure how to handle it well. Being angry is not bad, in itself. Sometimes there are excellent reasons to feel angry
Read moreSelf-esteem comes up in my clinic constantly. Some days it is easy to see when a child feels good about themselves, and other days it is much harder to read.
Read moreFor many of you, your child sleeping in your bed may not be a problem, and it’s entirely up to you to decide when it is the right time for
Read morePlay is essential for children and adults, too. Most of us don’t realise that play is universal, whatever the culture or society. The only difference is the attitude concerning the
Read moreIt is tempting, when things at home feel hard, to focus on what is going wrong. When you are in my sessions, most parents naturally want to talk about the
Read moreAnger is one of the most common themes I see in my clinic. It is something we all struggle to manage well, in ourselves as much as in our children.
Read moreIt might be the fifth slammed door this week, or the silence at dinner that used to be chatter. You ask a simple question and get a shrug, or worse,
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